Have you ever received this for your wedding anniversary?

Well, we married young, both twenty-one and ready for life.  We both worked and life was, good, we were happy, he had gone to study, and we had bought an older house and were in the process of trying to build it up and put our stamp on the home.

The great part is where is was located we were right next door to my in-laws, which was amazing, we really got on, and Granny was always nearby to help with whatever we were doing.  Whether we all went out or popped down to the shop, we always had a partner in crime, our mom.

It was great for the children, as they could walk between the two homes, and always have one of us around.

Well, the years rolled on and our tenth anniversary was coming up, I was so excited, to think that we had made 10 years.  It was a milestone in my opinion, we had been through lots of things, life changes, and come out the other end, so it was great.

My husband had always believed in giving a gift relevant to the year and these traditional suggestions.  The first year was rice paper, and duly I received a gift which was applicable.

But I had my sights set on the very least a medal, may a diamond, but something that 10 years together sort of warranted in my mind.

Well the evening came I had prepared a really special dinner, with champagne  and the children were sleeping over at Grandma's.

His gift was waiting in the bedroom, all wrapped and specially chosen. It was jewellery (a chain for around his neck, gold)

Well just before we were to sit down, the children came in to wish us and were excited as they were sleeping over. We wished them goodnight and off they went, expectation on my side was absolutely ready to explode, because he had been so secretive,

I had no idea what to expect. I had received the most romantic card ever, so was sure it was going to be an awesome one. The candles were lit, the champagne poured, just the two of us. The starter was served.

The love of my life pulls out his gift,  this elongated, large gift.  Instantly I though we it is too large to be a medal, what could it be?

Well needless to say, it was light it, did not make a noise when I rattled the present. He was so excited and convinced that I would guess what it was..... I truly had no idea at this stage.

What I had not done was refer to the list for marriage - traditional gifts, I was just so convinced.

Lol, well I opened the gift with all the excitement of a toddler with their first Christmas.

As I opened the gift, he had a second layer and when that was uncovered this is what I saw

If I said I was speechless, it was an understatement.  My recovery was remarkable, an Oscar winning performance.

We had a lovely evening, he loved his gift, but berated me for not having stuck to the list. Knowing what I know now, I should have bought the baked beans.......

Mom, arrived with the matching tin as a gift the next morning.... Perhaps a little advise guys, please don't do that.

Traditional and modern anniversary gifts

Year	Traditional (U.S.)	Modern
9th	Pottery	Leather goods
10th	Tin, aluminum	Diamond jewellery
11th	Steel	Fashion jewellery, accessories
12th	Silk	Pearls, colored gems

Lockdown the first hour.....

Well we are ready and lock down can begin, lets get it started.  Its set to start at midnight, well time for bed and those of us who are ready go to bed and to sleep, when we wake up it should be a good few hours into the first section.

As luck would have it, at 12H30 an almighty bang, crash is heard literally outside the house and of course we are all awake and what the heck?

To get outside and a person who should not have been travelling had hit the kerb on the opposite side of road and came straight across the road, into our garden wall, saved by a tree and finishing at the neighbour's wall.

Duly the son is already out there, checking is the person alive or dead, bleeding, etc. (Social distancing, we are all freaking out, be careful, stay away, don't go close......)

Meanwhile, stress central we are phoning 10111, no answer, try the Neighbourhood watch, no answer, 112 no answer.  Panic now what? Who to call, started with the police number again, and success they did arrive very quickly and sorted it out. Took statements, fully masked, gloved and correct. The said person was taken away by them.  He was not supposed to be on the streets.  Car was badly damaged and all four wheels destroyed.  No, blood, guts or broken bones were seen. The street returned to the expectant calm.

Impressive was that while Neighbourhood watch were not available, I got a call back later the morning.  Stunning.

I must admit, I love my country, but have not had that sense of pride for a long time.  But I feel for the frontline people.  Thank you for what you are doing.

Respect to you all, and those of you obeying and complying. Someone made a statement, think as if you have the virus, to change your behaviour;  how would you protect your family and others from the virus?
Be safe

had a Mosquito under the covers?

Well its the season for mosquito's and out comes the roll-on repellents and the sprays. 

Last evening was just like any other, had the shower, got the book and  while getting ready for bed.
put on the repellent on arms and hands, forgot the legs, I just could not wait to get back to my book.

Read for a while and had the room light on, so if there were any mosquito's, my thinking was that  they would be attracted to the main light, away from me........

Well my pooch and I were lying all curled up under the blankets, just my head and one arm holding the book was sticking out, of course I fall asleep while reading. A good Samaritan put off the lights.

Sleep glorious sleep,  I woke up to an itching leg and foot, oh boy, I could not stop scratching.
It was definitely a mosquito bite or two, so irritating, after a few moments of scratching  my legs with no joy, decided to try and sleep again.

Thinking that I must have got warm and had my leg on top of the duvet, it would make sense that mosquito's had bitten me.

Feeling confident that they were not going to bite me again tonight.

I was all in, arms and legs, under the duvet, quite pleased with myself, I had got the better of these mosquito's.

 This itching would not stop. Eventually frustrated I got out of bed and went to the bathroom to soothe the bites...... with toothpaste.  My legs were white with toothpaste and the relief was great.

I put on the light again,  now wide awake to get back into bed, as the blankets were opened up to climb in,  out came this 7kg mosquito with the longest sting, I swear it had a grin on its face, it had been inside the bed, under the sheets.

However, the biggest mistake the mosquito made was to come out of hiding, he came out flying in this triumphant flight of bzzzzz, bzzzzz trying to fly in circles, as he was so heavy from all the feasting he had done.

The slow flight allowed me to whack him to kingdom come.  What a satisfying feeling, knowing that it was not going to bite me anymore.

Now to try and sleep again.

CB radio's

Have you ever used one of these, they are such fun.  I lived in a small town and it was great entertainment.

I had it setup next my bed, in my car, and in the shop where I worked.  This was pre-cellphone.  I know you probably cannot imagine life without cellphones, but it existed.

My CB (Citizen Band radio), could be anywhere, it was a bit clumbersome, but it put you in touch with everyone in the community that was connected and possible new friends.

You would chat for hours about anything and everything, there was its own lingo. You had a name which was a handle, you used this name to identify yourself and would talk to the other buddies.

When driving in your car, you would ask the person where they were so that you could meet up and chat and that was called eye-balling (see) you.

I remember the passion for this type of communication being so popular.  One child had a father who was a job involved radios, and such like. Well, the whole family had radio's. Dad had one in his work vehicle and office, Mom was on the Base station, needless to say she had the strongest radio around and would "bleed" over all the channels when you spoke, the only way it worked was to invite her to chat with you..... The eldest son had one in his vehicle too.  The younger two had hand mobiles which also worked.  But the cutest one was the youngest.

One day while chatting he and I chatted for the first time, and he wanted to know where he could meet up and chat. I of course, was at work and suggested that he come around to the shop. Well he came and parked across the road.  I was finally going to meet the "voice".

I would have imagined, at least 5ft 10in, good-looking, dark hair, well spoken, good manners, and a fair car.  By now you have gathered I am somewhat of a romantic.

The call came in "Fairlady, where are you? Seagull here, what is your 10/7?" I went outside and looked up and down the Main road, as it was a Sunday afternoon and very quiet.  There was no cars in the road.  I went back inside to speak to Seagull and say that I could not see him and that he was probably in the wrong place - he had this smile in his voice.  He assured me that he was in the right spot and that I was just not looking correctly.

Duly I went out again and when I looked up the road again, there was only a lad on a bicycle with this very long aerial attached to his bike.  No. No-one was there.  I went back to the radio and called him up again and said that I could only see someone on a bicycle, "That is me," he said.

Well, we laughed and laughed, he came in and we chatted and had a ice-cream and we really became good friends. He ended up being my brother in law years later.

made "Melkkos"

Years ago as a young wife, my cooking skills were not so great, I mean if you have a husband who at your wedding reception, decides to tell the guests to not take all the food, as my wife can't cook.....

Needless to say we setup home in a place called Kathu.  Where?   It is in the Northern Cape, far from anything, to make matters worse when we lived there, the only grocer store and shop was run by the mine.

There was a petrol station and that was pretty much everything in the town.  There were obviously the schools, churches and homes, but not shops at this stage.

Well the point of this story was you were either employed by Iscor or SA Railways.  The nice part was we were lucky enough to have a lovely house, not much furniture yet, and we had a boarder who moved in with us.

He was young man who came from a large family and had a mother that could cook.  He came from a fishing village on the West Coast and was a lovely Afrikaans lad, Koos.

He had been missing home, and was saying that his mom had made him his favorite dish to spoil him and he was missing his mom real bad.

Needless to say his favorite dish was "Melkkos", I had never heard of this. But not one to back down from a good deed. I thought I would surprise him and make his favorite dish. 

Well, out came the trusty "Cook and Enjoy" , recipe book, filled with lots of South African recipes. Koos had left for work.  I had some time on my hands. 

It was a Friday and those were the days of petrol restrictions.  Petrol pumps closed  on Friday  evenings and reopened on Monday mornings. Kathu was a good 10 hours drive from the West Coast.

So I decided to get started with project surprise.  The recipe was read and re-read.  All the ingredients we had in the pantry so no issues there. I had to make a dough, I was so excited it sounded easy enough.  Make a dough, cut some strips, make a custard (thin), cook the dough strips in the custard.

How hard could this be, it was brilliant my dough came out fantastically, I rolled it out and cut finger sized strips as per instruction.  These flat long snakes were good looking.  I was feeling really proud of myself.  I had done everything right according to me.

These long strips were quite thick now, they seemed to have risen quite nicely and all I had to do was pop them into the custard mixture to cook.

This was working out so well, these thick snakes in the custard.  Well Koos came home and I could not wait to tell him, I had a surprise, he had, had a particularly bad day at work so I was really pleased that I would be making him feel better.

I called the guys for supper and dished up the meal in these big porridge bowls.  Just imagine a bowl of really thick Cobras in a bowl of custard.  Koos sat and stared at his bowl of food and asked what it was, I told him it was "Melkkos", he was not impressed.  He excused himself from the table went to his room, packed his bags and said goodbye.  He left to go home to the Coast, but what he forgot was that he could not get petrol.

He sat at he petrol station for hours making a terrible racket on his hooter, trying to get someone to open up the petrol station.  He did not come back to our home.  Instead he slept over at someone else and left Kathu and his job on the Monday morning.  Moral of the story, don't let me cook "Melkkos"

Egg Challenge 2020

 

Well Lock down fun, we are having the Adult Easter Egg Challenge,  it started as a way to pass the time.
You line up three shot glasses and a chaser.

There is a specific order of drinks, first shot glass is a raw egg, second shot glass has dry sugar in, the third glass has a shot of choice. The last glass is your drink of choice, which you down. Now nominate a couple of friends or family to partake in the challenge.

 You should video tape the whole challenge and send your video to the person who challenged you.

 Well needless to say this kept our family really busy for a full afternoon.

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What to do on Lockdown

Looting food which has been donated

The looting of donated food is a dreadful thing.  The injustices of the world is crazy.
Food was donated a few years ago to Mozambique.  I was living there at the time.
It was a strange time, there was flooding and travel was impossible to get anywhere, the water covered everything.

We had to get our food from different sources, we were lucky enough to have friends who could send us food parcels via South Africa, but they had to fly it in to us.  We lived in the Inhambane province at that stage. Road travel was limited to the central part of town, We were cut off from from the other towns.

The sad part is that the local Mozambican at that stage, were sustenance farmers,  they live off their produce and if they have more than they can use, they trade amongst themselves or sell it at the local markets.

Well, the floods happened, homes were lost, people were dying and help was pouring in from the NGO's  and other Organizations.

From rubber ducks with outboard motors, to help with rescue's.  Food was sent in by the bags full.  At a time like this rice and mielie meal is distributed to the locals and all who need, this is a gift for the people.

However a time like this power is a dreadful thing.  Whenever the power hungry person steps up, there is a money driven opportunity for them to make money.  Well make money they did.  They sold the free rice to people who had nothing, nowhere to live, just nothing.

The saddest thing I had ever seen was a old lady who had walked for miles to get to the distribution point with her bowls to take back food to where she came from.   She had walked for miles in water to get to the town, where it was being distributed.

This "Director" as they like to be called would not give her the food as she did not have the monies to pay for the rice and mielie meal, he sent her away, not bothered.  I was nearby and saw what had happened and had to ask someone else to go and "buy" and give it to her.  It was dreadful.  That was not the only one that I saw that he turned away that day.  But the stories came out.  He was never taken to task about it.

What we heard is that there were warehouses in Maputo that had such a lot of donations in the warehouse that was never distributed to the needy, but instead was sold to the people who were in charge of making sure it was distributed.

Nothing was proven of course, this is Africa, but is it not sad, that one person's downfall is another man's ill gotten gain.